Why Sending a Card Is the Ultimate Act of Self-Care

Reclaiming Connection in a Digital Age

It's hard to imagine a time when we were truly 'out of the office' thanks to emails, DMs and texts. We are so used to being available all day everyday and while this availability has created many amazing connections, there is something magical about seeing someone face-to-face or receiving a tangible letter in the mail from a friend, knowing they took time out of their day to write to you. 

Finding a handwritten card or thoughtful gift in the mail is a meaningful antidote to the constant online chatter that often consumes our day-to-day lives. I want to help you send more happy mail because I know of the powerful benefits of writing and sending cards.

1. The Emotional Power of a Handwritten Card

Knowing that a loved-one took the time to write a letter or hand-pick a thoughtful gift for you is a powerful way to cultivate connection. Our culture has become so focused on convenience and swiftness that it's hard to make time for slower, more mindful activities, but the act of writing a letter is also a way to express yourself - it can be an act of self-care!

There are many benefits to writing letters by hand - studies show that handwriting can enhances learning and memory. Sending snail-mail and thoughtful gifts to a friend can also be a creative, artsy activity! I love decorating snail mail with stickers and washi tape - it makes the whole process so fun and aesthetic.

2. Small Acts, Big Impact: The Mental Health Benefits

Receiving an unexpected gift or card in the mail can go a long way! Think of how it feels to receive something in the mail from a loved one - instant joy, connection, and a reminder that you're not alone. Psychology Today says that "research has shown that [the tradition of sending Christmas cards] fosters social connections, builds self-esteem, and alleviates feelings of loneliness.

You can even find a pen-pal if you want to connect with someone new! It's a little something to look forward to and can be a self-care ritual all about creativity and expression.

3.  Tips for Sending Self-Care Mail

If you are looking to get started with some self-care snail mail, I encourage you to grab a card from our shop and take the time to write a letter to someone you love - it could be for a birthday, for a friend going through a hard time, or someone you haven't seen in a long time. I guarantee you will be glad you did!

If you enjoy it and want to continue as a regular practice, you could find a few friends who want to join for a letter writing night, or make a list of people you want to connect to.

Another powerful way to use the art of snail-mail is to join in on efforts to write to political leaders on issues that are important to you. Many small shops host post-card writing nights to help the cause!

Snail Mail - Small But Mighty

I hope you found some inspiration to write a letter to someone you love today! Mention this blog post in your order and I'll include a free sticker sheet to help you make your greeting card even sweeter. 

Browse our friendship greeting card collection and start your own self-care snail mail ritual today!